What's the most enjoyable position between men? Interpretation of the eight gay sex positions

Regardless of your experience level, these anal sex positions will inspire you for intimate moments. Each position offers variations and tips to maximize pleasure for you and your partner. From man-to-man positions perfect for beginners to creative techniques for experienced players, you'll find practical advice on how to make gay sex safe and enjoyable.

How do gay men engage in sex?
Every body is different, and one method that feels good to one person may not work for another. However, having a few mental tips for pleasurable sex for men can be helpful.
Whether it's oral sex, joint masturbation, or anal sex, as long as both parties are willing and comfortable, you can try it. Going to the bathroom and cleaning thoroughly beforehand will help you focus more on the pleasure.

Here are some common ways gay men have sex:
1. Mutual Masturbation. Want to show your partner how you like to be touched? Watch each other masturbate! If you're a little nervous, this is the perfect way to get started.

2. Penis rubbing: Rub your erect penis against your partner's, enjoying the pleasure of each throbbing and pulsating sensation.

3. Oral sex: Licking and sucking your partner's penis with your mouth. The emphasis here is on "sucking," not literally "blowing."

4. Anal intercourse: Licking your partner's anus with your tongue, or having them lick you, is incredibly pleasurable.

5. Anal intercourse: Apply lubricant to your partner's anus and your fingers. Start by gently stroking or circling their anus with your fingers, then slowly insert them (don't thrust back and forth). This is an ideal practice before anal intercourse, allowing the anus to gradually adapt.

6. Anal intercourse: If you penetrate your partner's anus with your penis, you're the "top" position; the person being penetrated is the "bottom." You can enjoy both roles. First, learn about safe anal intercourse techniques, apply lubrication, and experiment slowly to achieve greater comfort and pleasure. Alternatively, use a wearable device like the Xinfeixiang to experience simultaneous orgasm from front and back stimulation.

What's the best position for first-time male-male intimacy?

Having sex with a new partner can be a bit nerve-wracking. The following positions can help you make your first experience unforgettable.

01 Face-off
How to: Lie on the bed or floor, shoulder to shoulder, facing each other, maintaining eye contact, while masturbating each other. Why it's comfortable: If you're not ready for anal sex, don't force yourself to try it right away. Face-off allows you to show your partner your preferences and learn what makes them tick. Observe how they touch themselves.Does he lean in for a passionate kiss, or let his eyes wander over you? Watch him observe your reactions and discover the little things that turn you on. 

02 Missionary Position
How to do it: Missionary position is an ideal starting point when you're ready to try anal sex. The bottom person lies on their back with their legs spread apart, while the top person lies on top of their partner, facing them. Place a cushion under your hips to elevate them for easier penetration. You may need to adjust your position to find the most comfortable angle.

03 Reverse Cowboy
How to do it: You've probably heard of reverse cowgirl—now it's your turn to ride it. The bottom person lies on their back, while the top (receiving) straddles their partner, facing away from them, and slowly lowers themselves onto their partner's erect penis. If you don't have strong thighs, this position can be challenging, as it places a lot of pressure on the top's thighs. For an easier variation, have the top person kneel on either side of their partner, rather than squatting.

04 Doggy Style
Doggy style is a classic sex position, suitable for all genders and sexual orientations. The bottom person kneels on all fours, while the top person kneels behind them for penetration. You may need to adjust the position several times to find the most comfortable angle. Remember to communicate, take your time, and use plenty of lubrication. Keeping your knees on the ground makes the position easier; for a more challenging experience, have the bottom person raise their knees and support their weight on their hands and feet.

05 Love Train
How to do it: If you'd like to bring another male partner into the bedroom, try the "Love Train." First, secure your favorite suction cup dildo to a smooth surface (or a Xinfeixiang mount if you don't have one). Then, line up with your partner, one in front and one in back, facing the same direction, aligned with the dildo. The partner in the back row (closer to the dildo) slowly rides the lubricated dildo while the partner in the front row rides on top of them, achieving a doubled stimulation.

06 Stand to Attention
How to do it: When passion strikes, there's something incredibly thrilling about pressing your partner against a wall. That's why we almost always recommend having lube handy. In the "standing position," the bottom partner faces a fixed object like a wall or kitchen counter, while the top partner stands behind them, facing the same direction. It may take a few tries to find the most comfortable angle. The bottom partner can thrust or squeeze their hips, while the top partner can rock their hips back and forth, experimenting to find the perfect angle.

07 Up and Over
How to do it: The bottom partner wears ankle restraints or leg extensions and lies on their back with their legs raised and feet close to their ears. The top partner kneels on the bottom partner's knees, using their hands to support their partner's sides for balance. Why it's so comfortable: If you enjoy deep penetration and intimacy, try the "climbing position." This position not only allows for intense eye contact and passionate kissing, but also allows for pleasurable touch.

08 The Starfish
How to do it: The "Starfish" position is a worthwhile gay sex position for larger partners. Because of its shallow penetration angle, it's better suited for those who prefer less deep penetration.The top partner lies on their back, while the bottom partner slowly straddles the top partner's penis, extending their legs over their shoulders. Then, the bottom partner leans back, lying flat on their back—they can clasp their hands for support and balance.