Male Edging Control: How to Separate Orgasm from Ejaculation?

The English term for orgasm threshold training is“edging control.” However, in a more academic sense, this “edge” is not actually referred to as an edge, but rather as a “critical point,” whose corresponding English term is “edging point.” Edging control, or the ejaculation critical point, is essentially more like a form of muscular training. Its purpose is to help you separate orgasm from ejaculation as two distinct processes.

Every time you feel like you are about to lose control, when the sensation of orgasm becomes overwhelming and you are close to ejaculating, stop the stimulation, shift your attention, or change your rhythm and direction, then repeat the process continuously. Reaching the state of edging is essentially about gaining control over the sensation of ejaculation.

Now there is a question: the ejaculation critical point is a physiological boundary point, so where exactly is this critical point?

First, we need to understand the four major stages of male sexual activity. The first stage is the excitement stage, the second stage is the plateau stage, the third stage is the orgasm stage, and the fourth stage is the resolution stage. If we mark the state before excitement, meaning before engorgement, as 0%, then where should the critical point be? It should be in the advanced phase of the plateau stage, approximately around 70%.

This critical point is not a single point. Seventy percent is only the starting point of this interval. Then where is its upper range?

It should be around 90%. Therefore, the male critical point is actually a range. Everyone should remember that the “edging point” refers to a range, and its interval value is between 70% and 90%. So if your technique uses edging control methods, it should allow men to repeatedly move within this range — raising and lowering, raising and lowering again. If it can consistently stay between 70% and 90%, then a man can experience the effects of edging control.

So what effects does edging control produce?

First, men may experience multiple orgasms, but these multiple orgasms do not involve actual ejaculation. The complete ejaculation system is not fully activated, so it will not produce those kinds of negative effects.

Secondly, because there is no ejaculation, the body can remain in this advanced plateau stage continuously. In other words, blood flow remains in a constantly engorged state. During this stage, it keeps rising, then stabilizing, then rising again and stabilizing again. However, the overall threshold and plateau stage are actually elevated as a whole.

After this overall elevation, there are two results:

First, the final climax point will become higher.

Second, during this process, more sexual energy and accumulated desire will be consumed compared to normal conditions.

The consumption becomes greater. It is like a flood: before the dam breaks, water is continuously stored inside the reservoir. After accumulating to a certain height, once the flood is finally released, the force and impact of that release become much stronger. These are the three effects brought about by edging control techniques.

In addition, let me supplement an extra concept here called the “point of no return.” The English term is “no returning point.” Where is it located? It is around the 95% position. If someone has mastered edging control techniques very skillfully, they can extend the edging point range from 70% all the way up to 95%. This applies to people who are highly skilled in orgasm control. However, once it exceeds 95%, for the vast majority of people, no matter how mature their technique or how rich their experience is, reaching 95% may trigger the entire male ejaculation response. This physiological system will then be activated.

If this sounds too abstract, we can use the Comfly wearable model as an example. During use, the hips repeatedly perform slight bending and stretching motions, similar to slightly bending the waist or knees. This creates continuous relative sliding stimulation on the penis to generate pleasure, while also providing accompanying anal pleasure. During this process, the threshold rapidly rises from 0% to 70%, and then continues rising further. When we personally feel that the threshold is approaching 90%, we shift our attention, pause all movement, lower the threshold back down to around 70%, and then repeatedly perform the movements mentioned above, staying active within this range — raising and lowering, raising and lowering again. If you can continuously maintain yourself between 70% and 90%, then your edging control has truly become very advanced.

In conclusion, edging control is essentially a technical skill. The key to mastering edging control is becoming familiar with controlling and recognizing the position of the critical point. This critical point is the edging point. It is located within the advanced plateau stage among the four major stages of male sexual activity, specifically between 70% and 90%. If you exceed 95%, you will reach the point of no return, also known as the “no returning point.” At that moment, there is no way to stop it, and ejaculation will occur.