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I am a heterosexual man, but I enjoy anal stimulation. Is this normal?

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"Not long ago, I discovered that I really enjoyed anal stimulation during intimacy. I told my girlfriend about it, but she still felt a little scared and strange about touching my anal area. This made me feel a little ashamed."Is it really normal for a heterosexual man to enjoy anal stimulation? — From a friend who had an in-depth conversation with Comfly customer service. Everyone has their own sexual preferences.We are all different when it comes to sex—what is great and pleasurable for one person may not be for another. So who gets to decide what is "normal" or "abnormal"?

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About anal stimulation

For a long time, people mistakenly believed that anal stimulation was only for homosexual men. However, it was rarely considered strange when women in heterosexual couples were the "receivers" during intercourse. Although anal stimulation still carries some taboos, the fact is that heterosexual men can also derive great pleasure from it. Furthermore, receiving anal stimulation cannot be used to determine a person's sexual orientation.

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Key Facts!

The prostate gland is located about five centimeters deep inside the anus. It feels slightly firm to the touch and is about the size of a chestnut. Accessible through the anus, the prostate is often referred to as the "G-spot" or "P-spot" in men. It contains a large number of nerve endings, making it particularly sensitive to stimulation. Stimulation of the prostate can not only lead to an erection but can even result in a more intense and deeper orgasm.

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So, what constitutes "normal"?

Whether it's a strong or weak libido, a preference for mild or stimulating sexual behavior, the presence or absence of sexual arousal, specific sexual preferences, the use of sex toys, or different forms of stimulation… sex is a diverse and rich field. As mentioned before, everyone has their own desires, preferences, needs, and boundaries.

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No one can truly define what is normal, abnormal, healthy, or unhealthy. Whatever your desires, the most important thing is to accept and acknowledge yourself. As long as your actions don't harm others or break the law, you should and have the right to enjoy them. You don't need to feel ashamed at all, because many people share the same preferences as you. "Everyone has their own sexual preferences, desires, needs, and boundaries. No one can truly define what is normal or abnormal."

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How to integrate anal stimulation into your intimate life?

When you overcome your shame and are ready to incorporate anal stimulation into your daily sex life, it's important to consider your partner's wishes and boundaries. Even if you are fully accepting of it yourself, it doesn't mean your partner will be able to accept it easily right away. Therefore, open communication is crucial.

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Explain to her which parts of the anus you enjoy stimulating and why they bring you pleasure. Discuss possible approaches, as there are many different options for anal play! For example, you could use a wearable device like the Comfly to play with her, enjoying both front and back stimulation while achieving a fuller erection and longer duration – she'll likely enjoy this method.

But remember: don't force or pressure your partner; understand and respect their thoughts and feelings. Only through open and honest conversations can you truly connect with each other. Of course, if she's unwilling, you can also enjoy the Comfly fully automatic model yourself.

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How to make anal stimulation go smoothly?

If you'd like to know how to incorporate anal stimulation into your sex life, here are some common options:
1. Self-stimulation with your fingers (alone or during sex with a partner);

2. Have your partner stimulate your anus with their fingers;

3. Oral stimulation, also known as "anal licking";

4. Use toys that can be inserted into the anus, such as the Comfly series, anal plugs, anal dildos, and anal vibrators;

5. For partners to use wearable dildos for penetration (commonly known as pegging), we hope you will give priority to the Comfly wearable dildo, which is very coordinated and natural for controlling the rhythm and stimulation points of both partners.

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